WOULD DAVID BE BETTER OFF BACK IN MALAWI?

There has been no divorce settlement reached between Madonna and her estranged husband Guy Ritchie.

British reports claimed that the two had struck a deal over their finances and how to split their property. One publication even went as far as to say that they had agreed to a custody arrangement for the couple’s children.

In a brief e-mail message sent to The Associated Press, Madge’s publicist Liz Rosenberg said: “I will not be commenting on the various reports regarding the divorce or of the settlement which has not been finalized.”

Meanwhile, something that has been finalized is David Banda’s father’s opinion on where his biological son would best be off — in Africa!!

The real father of Madonna’s adopted son David feels bitterly disappointed that she is getting a divorce - and yesterday he declared: “I am still a poor farmer with nothing to offer, but maybe he would be better off back with us.”

“‘This is a new and terrible thing to happen to him. I am too upset to think clearly. He is only three years old and he has been through so much. I have the joy of a new family and I even have a new son. But now when I think of David in danger of living outside a family life I find it unbearable, I find it hard to believe God intended this. This woman Madonna told me herself that David was beautiful and made her happy and she promised to take good care of him. Now I see him in a big bewildering crowd in the street with people pushing and shoving, and many cameras around, and without a mother and father to hold his hand. I’m feeling bad for him.”

While we love to kick someone while they’re down, there’s no doubt that young David is far better off with a divorced Madonna then returning to a mud hut is Malawai anyday. His father has to much to say, if he feels so strongly about his son he should never had signed the child over in the first place or put a week old baby in a home.

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23 Comments

  1. Alison Malison
    October-20-2008 @ 10:19 am

    I think the child should also stay with Madonna!! There is no way the child would be better off with his father. Madonna will provide an amazing life for him!!

  2. Gigi
    October-20-2008 @ 10:23 am

    This whole divorce is going to get really dirty I think! The British press are going to be very supportive of Guy and Madonna will no longer be loved by the UK press!

  3. sandra
    October-20-2008 @ 10:33 am

    How the fuck are we supposed to know where he has it better?

    We don’t know how it is like with Maddy and we don’t know how it is like in Malawi! We are not child rearing experts here. Only some ‘know it all’ idiots can answer that. They think they have the answer to everything whether it is raising a child or whatever comes to their mind and of course people involved in these situations know nothing because they lack the intelligence of blogkeepers/posters online. (I had a bad day apparently, lol)

  4. MissJanet
    October-20-2008 @ 10:40 am

    Well, I DO know! :)
    Surely David has bonded with his mother and siblings, enjoys the ealth they can offer him and feels loved and cared for - even Guy said that Madonna is a great mother. Divorce happens, why should David be send home into poverty and hunger?

    His birth father is probably well paid for whatever he says, good for him, but he cannot be serious.

  5. sunshine
    October-20-2008 @ 10:58 am

    I agree with Sandra. How does anyone know what goes on inside anyone’s home unless they live there? I remember seeing Madonna on an interview saying how conflicted she is to be away from her children so much as she works on all her projects and how she sometimes feels she has too little time with them. Even if someone has wealth, it does not guarantee they are happy. Madonna’s divorce should be the least of David’s father’s concerns. The fact that she doesn’t have enough self control not to bash Guy at her concert speaks volumes about her character. I feel bad for David’s father, because it must be hard to see your child in any situation you feel is less than ideal.

  6. suzy s not that other one
    October-20-2008 @ 11:01 am

    He should be with his parents in Africa, she shoulg never have been able to adopt him in the first place, copying off Angelina if she wanted to help his father she could have given him some of all that money she has, what the hell is she going to teach him about his heritage and it is a strong on, i know he will resent that mess and she got the nerve to be trying to teach him that kabbl mess of hers! RIDICULOUS!!!

  7. suzy s not that other one
    October-20-2008 @ 11:02 am

    sunshine you are so right i feel for david’s dad too thats why she should have left him alone, taking one kid aint helping nothing, sending them money helps alot! but oh no she was so busy trying to out-do Angelina!

  8. Life On Mars
    October-20-2008 @ 11:05 am

    Pull out of Iraq ?!?!

    Perhaps the U.S. should pull out of Chicago ?

    Body count:

    In the last six months:

    292 killed (murdered) in Chicago ;

    221 killed in Iraq .

    Chicago…. Who Runs it:
    Senators: Barack Obama & Dick Durbin

    Rep: Jesse Jackson Jr.,

    Illinois Gov: Rod Blogojevich,

    Illinois House leader Mike Madigan,

    Illinois Atty. Gen. Lisa Madigan (daughter of Mike),

    Chicago Mayor Richard M. Daley (son of Mayor Richard J. Daley)

    …..our leadership in Illinois …..all Democrats.

    Thank you for the combat zone in Chicago .

    Of course, they’re all blaming each other!

    Can’t blame Republicans; they’re aren’t any!

    State pension fund $44 Billion in debt, worst in country.

    Cook County ( Chicago ) sales tax 10.25% highest in country. (Look ‘em up if you want).

    Chicago school system rated one of the worst in the country.

    This is the political culture that Obama comes from in Illinois . And he’s gonna ‘fix’ Washington politics for us?

    Wake Up America !

  9. suzy s not that other one
    October-20-2008 @ 11:09 am

    Im sure if the father knew what type of life these rich folks live, nannies and their kids are basically on their own im sure he would not have let him go, i dont care what nobody says. i would rather be poor and happy with my biological family and raised to appreciate my heritage than to be hustled off to live a world like these rich folks do, money dont buy happiness thats for sure. African people are strong people who are devoted to their heritage and ancesters and this troll aint teaching him nothing but how to run around in designer expensive clothes and think you are better than the average person, what a life i agree 100% with the father!

  10. OMG Really???
    October-20-2008 @ 12:12 pm

    @ Gigi
    .
    Madonna is/was never really loved by the press. It never stopped her. I doubt she cares. She doesn’t show her emotions in public. She will keep her chin up like nothing ever happend nomatter how dirty and mean it gets. She’s a tough cookie.

  11. yug
    October-20-2008 @ 12:13 pm

    They should take that child away from Vadge and give it back to it’s father. The boy was not even an orphan to begin with.

  12. LAURIE SMITH
    October-20-2008 @ 12:49 pm

    Why not get David and A-Rod out their playing baseball.. new publicity photos..
    Since we all know that Madonna won’t put an end to this.. Have him help her out. Since Rocco has his father and Lourdes has Carlos Leon… It would be
    great to see David and A-Rod out there in New York together..

    Will Liz put an end to all this fake publicity or are we going to see how adoption
    doesn’t mean you have to give up a child.. there are a lot of single moms out
    there..

  13. scandic
    October-20-2008 @ 1:01 pm

    madonna went through 18 months of monitoring by the british child services when she got david banda. she has been very outspoken of what a hard process it was to be monitored so intensively and also said she couldn’t imagine someone adopting for no reason because the process is so complicated.

    so yes, we do know that she provides a good home for him. you can probably look up the public records if you care enough. having a former father that cries wolf everytime madonna is in the media is a far mor serious problem for david than his divorcing parents.

  14. Anonymous
    October-20-2008 @ 1:56 pm

    oh my god,I cant believe these comments.thats the same father who visited his son twice a year when he was at the orphanage!the women that work there said so!I understand some people will NEVER like Madonna,shes either loved or hated,but shit I’d rather be with her than go back to Africa and live the way David did.this woman gave him LIFE.education,health u name it!his dad gave him what?2-3 visits a year?please!

  15. LAURIE SMITH
    October-20-2008 @ 2:40 pm

    How does anyone knows if he said this or not.. Every time something happens
    to Madonna we have to hear that his father said this or that..He didn’t say anything he said he wants the best life for his son..

  16. suzy s not that other one
    October-20-2008 @ 3:13 pm

    YUG… you are right the boy was never an orphan folks believe anything they read, i also read dont know whether its true or not but i read she pulled strings and the father was tricked into signing over but afterwards he said ok, but i know he is having second thoughts about it because he is a stron African and would have his son raised to believe in his heritage AND NOT MADONNAS PLUS SHE IS FULL OF SHYT ANYHOW SHE NO DAMN WELL SHE TRICKED THAT POOR MAN FOR HER OWN STATUS AND GLORY.. FUC* HER!

  17. suzy s not that other one
    October-20-2008 @ 3:18 pm

    at least he didnt have a media who^e for a mother in Africa the ish has enogh money she could have helped the father instead of taking the boy to live in her effed up world of fakeness and lies and deceit! trust the boy will resent her wait until he grows uo will put money on it, she is just trying to be like Angelina and thise records were fake and messed with hell money in this effed up world gets you what you want ahead of eveyone thats why this country’s so effed up now. papers my tail a fool knows they put the troll ahead of folks to adopt that boy! please!

  18. Tookinstein
    October-20-2008 @ 3:34 pm

    ….as Madonna says as she is rolling naked in her 53 million dollars “Malawi Shlamawi”….and then she laughs maniaclly …oh yeah, that’s how she rolls.

  19. thighmegatampon
    October-20-2008 @ 4:18 pm

    I don’t understand why David’s father gave him up and then had another kid?

  20. suzy
    October-20-2008 @ 5:33 pm

    I wonder if Madonna would consider giving David back to his dad? Maybe this is the dad’s way of putting it out there- that he would be willing to take his son back if the heartbreak proves too much to bear for the narcissistic beastly madge.

  21. Sina
    October-20-2008 @ 6:20 pm

    suzy…you are such a pathetic ignorant person….unbelievable

  22. just askin'
    October-20-2008 @ 9:23 pm

    Really, suzywhogivesafuckwhichoneyouare, you are pretty damn ignorant. All Africans are strong, eh? So it was strength that made David Banda’s father give him to an orphanage? Really, you don’t give your child much of a heritage to believe in when you dump him off with strangers and tell him good luck while you go off to find another woman to marry and impregnate and start yet ANOTHER family you can’t fucking afford to care for.

    Yeah, real strength. But you just go ahead and believe in the strength of ALL Africans, suzywhatthefuck. Whatever makes it easier to live your ignorant life.

    How the hell do stupid people like you get internet access, anyway?

  23. prasa
    October-24-2008 @ 3:47 am

    the child giving back malavi , its not good . today child live in europe life . an transfer to poor malavi situation life it broken baby heart. so please child care organisation or human rights organisation check madona truly care for the child ? baby want really love , so chek child care she gave a good life.

    Africa the ish has enogh money she could have helped the father instead of taking the boy to live in her effed up world of fakeness and lies and deceit! trust the boy will resent her wait until he grows uo will put money on it, she is just trying to be like Angelina and thise records were fake and messed with hell money in this effed up world gets you what you want ahead of eveyone thats why this country’s so effed up now. papers my tail a fool knows they put the troll ahead of folks to adopt that boy! please!

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